Hello

beth_bodycote_2015-copyWelcome to my blog which features aspects of my current PhD research into Family Experiences of School Anxiety and Refusal.

I will also be sharing relevant articles, posts and information that could be relevant and helpful for the families and professionals supporting children and young people experiencing school-based anxiety and attendance difficulties.

If you are seeking advice and support from other people who are, or have, experienced this situation I am involved with a number of support groups and pages on Facebook (most people find it a huge help when they find they are not alone and that we really understand what it is like!) – if you would like to join us here are some links:

NOT FINE IN SCHOOL

SCHOOL REFUSAL SUPPORT SERVICES

 

My Interest in School Refusal

Families of school refusing children are often in a particularly complex and emotive situation created by conflicts between personal, educational and legal needs and requirements.

Many school refusing children and their parents care deeply about their education. However, when they struggle to overcome their attendance difficulties, instead of being offered help and support they often encounter hostile and critical responses, leaving them feeling isolated and frustrated.

I experienced this situation myself as a parent when my eldest son began to school refuse in 2008. This experience, combined with the contact I have had online with so many other families who are struggling within the system, inspired me to enrol on my Education Studies degree, as I was determined to find a way to help families and to highlight this mostly hidden and ignored problem.

 

My Research

I wrote my BA dissertation, Caught Between a Rock and a Hard Place: Parents Experiences of School Refusal, Within the Education System, with the input of some lovely parents within the School Refusal Facebook group who shared their experiences and opinions with me. I am proud to say my dissertation was  assessed as ‘outstanding’, ‘hugely impressive’, ‘original research’, ‘well-conducted’ and ‘an important contribution to scholarship’. My aim is to continue this research which is now possible as De Montfort University have awarded me funding to begin my PhD study, School Refusal: Investigating a New Model of Interventions based upon the experiences of Children and Families. (You can find out more about what I am doing on the ‘RESEARCH’ page).

 

 

7 thoughts on “Hello

  1. RossMountney says:

    Fascinated by your research Beth. It’s great you linked up through my site – thanks for your support shown there. School refusal and anxiety is a subject close to my heart as an ex-teacher witnessing it first hand, and through my more recent work about home education. I feel very strongly that ‘school refusal’ is not a ‘fault’ that lies with the child, but is a natural reaction to a school or class climate that not all children are going to be comfortable with and that is their right!

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  2. bethbod says:

    Thank you Ross, I agree wholeheartedly, all children cannot fit into one type of education system and the pressures that are being put onto children by the government are making the situation much worse. Families are being treated appallingly when they try to access help for their children and this needs to be addressed for everyone’s sake.

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  3. myquirkygirl says:

    Thanks for this blog and your research Beth. I’ve met you on the FB group but didn’t know you were also researching this area. If I can help, please let me know. No family or child should have to go through the ‘trial by compliance’ that education has become in 2017.

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    • bethbod says:

      Thank you for your message, I will definitely let you know when I need some volunteers! Hope you don’t mind but I thought your post was brilliant and I shared it with the FB group – don’t know why, but I had a feeling you might be a member of the group 🙂

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  4. Ruth Robison says:

    Oh my goodness and a huge WOW!!! I am at present experiencing school refusal with my 10 year old son and he is being treated as a naughty child, whenever his severe anxiety is being expressed as anger or when he is shouted at and also when the teacher shouts generally in his class. I now have social work involvement and initially perceived this as a real help, as they offered all manner of various support, especially as I have mental and physical disabilities. However, the support has not been given, so my son feels worse and gets very emotional when he is let down, as do I. I actually spent hours yesterday trying to find help locally for us in the form of someone to attend the ‘meetings of professionals’ at school, who would be allowed to attend, but to provide support for me, as I can feel very intimidated sitting in a room for a couple of hours, with at least 6 of those professionals. I also found that there is such a thing as a school phobia, which is very real, but I know I will be shot down if a medical practitioner has not diagnosed it. I can’t believe I have just seen that I’m now not alone in this!! Thank you so much and I very much admire your dedication in learning and studying this. Oh and I also have 3 elder sons, who are 16, 24 & 28, but yet they are repeatedly treating me as a 1st time mum, who basically doesn’t have a clue about the importance of education etc!

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    • bethbod says:

      Hi Ruth, are you on Facebook? – if so please see the links above for the ‘Not Fine In School’ group where you will find other parents supporting each other. You mentioned looking for local help and support for meetings – have you heard of SENDIASS? – they can do that -https://councilfordisabledchildren.org.uk/information-advice-and-support-services-network/find-your-local-ias-service

      Also see independent supporters
      https://councilfordisabledchildren.org.uk/independent-support/where-find-my-independent-support-provider

      Also, if you look on my blog page there are the guides that I collated – for parents and for sharing with schools, there are lots of links and advice in those too,

      Hope that is helpful 🙂 Beth

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